Most people who find their way here are already doing a lot right.

You’re self aware. You’ve reflected on your patterns. You care about how you show up in your relationships. You’ve likely done some form of therapy or personal development and you can feel the difference it’s made, yet still there are moments where it doesn’t hold. The theory alone isn’t enough.

Because in those moments, something deeper takes over. That’s the space this work meets you in.

Earthed Intimacy offers Neuro Affective and Complex Relational Trauma and Attachment based services that support sustainable, self empowered evolution for you, your life, your business and your relationships. How we do one thing is how we do all things.

We meet human to human, in the moment, online or in person, working with what is actually happening in your body and your nervous system as it unfolds.

Because the shift you’re looking for doesn’t come from more understanding alone. It comes from what happens in real time.

As your capacity for self attunement grows, so does your ability to stay present in tension, to feel without shutting down or over functioning and to respond in a way that creates genuine connection and aliveness.

This naturally changes how you experience intimacy, communication, sexuality, parenting, and the way you move through your life.

People often notice a quiet but significant shift, a deeper sense of connection to themselves and the people around them.


Meet Hayley.

Hayley Fleming is known for the depth of presence she brings into the room.

Since 2010, she has worked with individuals, couples and families through physical, emotional and relational tension, trauma and significant life transitions. Her work has been shaped over more than fifteen years of direct experience, ongoing study and a sustained curiosity about what creates real change in the body and in relationships. As a mother of two teenagers, and a multifaceted artist, musician, and facilitator, her approach is grounded in lived experience as much as professional training. What she offers is not formulaic. It is responsive, attuned and rooted in what is actually happening in the moment.

Hayley works both online and in person, integrating somatic counselling with body based practices. She is known for getting to the core quickly, asking the questions that matter, and noticing what often goes unspoken. Clients often describe feeling deeply met, while also being gently but clearly guided toward what is true. Much of the work unfolds in real time. Patterns are not only spoken about, they are recognised as they arise, creating the opportunity for a different experience to take shape immediately. The majority of Hayley’s clients come through word of mouth and many continue to work with her over extended periods of time. This reflects the level of trust, consistency, and depth she brings to her work.

Services include integrative bodywork, online somatic counselling for individuals and couples, family dynamics assessments, and internal pelvic attunement therapy for women, alongside birth and pre and post natal support. Mentoring programs are also available for men, women, and teens.

If you feel the resonance, you’re invited to explore the testimonials and services pages, or book a 15 minute call to connect directly.

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  • Integrative Talk Therapy

    Somatic counselling practices for individuals and couples during all kinds of relationship circumstances or life transitions. Online or In Person.
    Couples & Individual Therapy Packages & Therapist in Pocket WhatsApp support available.

    Empowering clients with effective communication skills, regulation & nervous system skills, integrating physical intimacy issues & also embodiment coaching support programs for business or relational success/alignment. Hayley also offers relational dynamics assessments, drawing upon multiple talk therapy approaches & human design. For couples & families to begin to understand each other better and improve conflict or for individuals to deepen their understanding of themselves.

  • Yin/Yang Bodywork

    These sessions are both a top-down and bottom-up approach to integrating a person’s life traumas into their life potential and their mental, physical, emotional & spiritual bodies to co-exist harmoniously. Hayley approaches her clients with curiosity and gently guides, allowing individuals to find their own healing pathways.
    We pendulate between states receptivity and activation for the client, increasing capacity for them to hold their tension trauma & their potential joy & aliveness.
    Renowned for her intentional touch, Hayley's hands tend to intuitively promote deep relaxation & transformative potential for the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies.

    All welcome.

  • Internal Pelvic Attunement

    This work supports women with:
    Chronic pelvic tension or pain.
    Birth trauma, miscarriage, or abortion healing.
    Navigating grief, loss, or major life transitions.
    Healing from sexual trauma or emotional disconnection.
    Preparing the body for conception, pregnancy, and postpartum healing.
    Reawakening sensuality, desire, and pleasure.
    Nervous system & hormonal balance.
    To read more about this service and the science behind the modality head to the services tab in the main menu.

  • Birth & End of Life Mentor

    Supporting individuals and their loved ones through major life transitions like fertility, conception, birth, death, miscarriage, abortion, relationship breakup and all kinds of birth and grief-based life situations. Hayley offers her talk based and bodywork based therapies to support clients with their current situation. Transpersonal Birth and Grievance Therapies with Hayley can also include sound & art therapy and Blessing Way ceremonies for expectant parents. Hayley is available to attend all types of birth in the Macleay Valley NSW and has been supporting/witnessing birth since 2010. She conducts workshops on birth desires and personal boundaries for couples preparing for birth and provides birth education classes if required. Book a free clarity call with her to ask any questions or for an individualised quote.

Testimonials

FAQ’s.

Location.

In person, Earthed Intimacy appointments are facilitated here at @MOOKABURRA (The Nest) in Frederickton NSW Online appointments are facilitated either via Zoom or WhatsApp.

Hayley also travels to regional areas and interstate to visit clients for Internal Pelvic Attunement Therapy & Somatic Attunement Therapy for Couples.

Schedule your appointment or book your free 15 min Q&A call with Hayley or email her to enquire about her upcoming travel.

“Create a loving relationship with your body, in whatever condition it is in and it will learn that it can trust you. Then it can start to relax and begin its own powerful healing journey”

Hayley Fleming